That someone.

We can’t ever know someone completely if we don’t even know ourselves completely.  Believe it or not, even on our own death bed we will be finding out new things about our own personality we didn’t know in our entire life. This mainly has to do with our life experiences, the things we live and do throughout our life’s time frame. Therefore it isn’t right to pretend to know someone, since this somewhat leads to misjudging them. I say this in the sense where we meet someone for the first time and after the first conversation we immediately form a thought of that someone, therefore we label them. If this person is someone that we find interesting it is obvious we will find a way to continue having more conversations with them and as we do, “this label” we gave them at first, becomes something more concrete. At this point, we decide whether to continue knowing them or to simply walk away. 

Choosing between those two can sometimes be quite difficult. Many factors come amid this. Maybe we find this person attractive but their conversations or personality is quite boring leading us to think that in a near future their attractiveness will seem less due to their bland personality or we find a person that is not so attractive but has a remarkable personality that leads us to think in the near future their unattractiveness will seem less. Or we can be lucky and find a person whose personality is amazing and their own selves quite attractive as well that we end up going head over heels. Anything can happen. It all goes down to the point where we finally meet that someone; we want to stay with, for the rest of our life. This bringing me to the next question: Is it necessary to know everything about that one’s life? 

This can be a yes and a no. It’s a yes because we might find it necessary in order to feel we possess that someone completely in heart and soul and that they are no secrets, but there are others, like me, who says it’s a no. It’s a no because I rather know the essential of that person’s past life and waste my energy knowing the present and the future, while still feeling I owe the person’s heart and soul and even if there are secrets, because those secrets maintain the mystery that is essential to any relationship, it's what keeps you interested, something I rather have then getting into drama or worse, getting hurt by things that may not even matter at this point.

/Karly.